These are restful pieces about my experiences and they’re on pretty much anything.

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Reflections on life and my Christian walk

8 things that got me through the worst time in my life (in 500 words)

Ever had a moment when you glimpsed how amazing Jesus is? I just had one. (Whilst studying Deuteronomy. I know, I’m weird) (July 2019)

More than memories: why I am not afraid of losing our holiday to epilepsy (Feb 2018)

Music, perfection and play: shedding childhood shame (Oct 2016)

An open letter to JK Rowling: nine things I can’t thank you enough for (Jul 2017)

Reflections from standing outside the Fifty Shades Darker premiere (Feb 2017)

The friend who was always there: on faithfulness, creativity and being me (Jan 2017)

I think I need to grieve: what one year in a DV charity does to you (Nov 2017)

Reflections on blogging and social media

I’ve learnt that I can’t blog about virginity, without discussing violence (Jan 2020)

About me and about my blog: April 2019 edition

I met Sheila Gregoire! And we talked about sex, consent and blogging over ice cream. (July 2019)

New profile picture: grey places and the art of Siku

My greatest regrets are when I was trying to be someone I’m not

How do I handle non-responses on social media? Yeah, not great.

An open letter to group admins, from a borderline Aspie (March 2018)