The tapestry of my time

These are restful pieces about my experiences and they’re on pretty much anything.

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Reflections on life and my Christian walk

Ever had a moment when you glimpsed how amazing Jesus is? I just had one. (Whilst studying Deuteronomy. I know, I’m weird) (July 2019)

Picture of woman from behind, sitting in church pew, with large Orthodox icon at the front of the church. Text: Ever had a moment when you got a glimpse of how amazing Jesus is? I just had one. (Whilst studying Deuteronomy. I know, I'm weird) workthegreymatter.com

More than memories: why I am not afraid of losing our holiday to epilepsy (Feb 2018)

Lefty catcher's mitt holding baseball on table

Music, perfection and play: shedding childhood shame (Oct 2016)

Sheet music of Harry Potter music The Room of Requirement on a piano

An open letter to JK Rowling: nine things I can’t thank you enough for (Jul 2017)

Harry Potter and the philosopher's stone book with cinema 3D glasses

Reflections from standing outside the Fifty Shades Darker premiere (Feb 2017)

Protest banner against 50 Shades "Not consent, not redemption, not a fairy-tale" with quotes from Fifty Shades Darker

The friend who was always there: on faithfulness, creativity and being me (Jan 2017)

White Tree death resurrection poem


Reflections on blogging and social media

About me and about my blog: April 2019 edition

Manga image of grey woman holding staff of Aaron with light showing her blue eyes

I met Sheila Gregoire! And we talked about sex, consent and blogging over ice cream. (July 2019)

Glass bowl of pink ice cream on a wooden surface with the words: I met Sheila Gregoire! And we talked about sex, consent and blogging over ice cream. workthgreymatter.com

New profile picture: grey places and the art of Siku

Grey woman with the staff of Aaron, art by Siku

My greatest regrets are when I was trying to be someone I’m not

How do I handle non-responses on social media? Yeah, not great.

Coloured windows at Norwich Cathedral

An open letter to group admins, from a borderline Aspie (March 2018)

Mobile with Facebook app and title: An open letter to group admins, from a borderline Aspie