“The sub is in control” — actually, this isn’t true and consent culture needs better words

CONTENT NOTE: This post discusses BDSM and violence against women. TLDR: in a world where violence against women is a major issue, and ‘rough sex gone wrong’ is being used reprehensibly as a defence to murder, the BDSM community needs to use the best language it can. In a consensual context, it’s not that the … Continue reading “The sub is in control” — actually, this isn’t true and consent culture needs better words