Why do I write about BDSM?
BDSM stands for: Bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism. I want to get something straight right at […]
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BDSM, Moonlight, My bloggingLight in Grey Places
About the “steamy action” in 50-Shades-the-film
OK, I want to throw my two cents in when it comes to the portrayal of sex in the film of
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What’s bad about “the worst” six slaps?
At the end of 50 Shades of Grey, Ana asks Christian for the “worst” punishment. He hits her six times and stops. Was this bad or indeed the “worst”?
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50 Shades, BDSM, Moonlight7 essential facts about consent (guest post)
This piece of writing is a fantastic one-stop-shop about what consent really looks like. The BDSM-er who wrote it intended it more as a
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BDSM, MoonlightAna’s spin cycle – the most mundane description of an orgasm ever?
In some respects Lord of the Rings was wasted on me when I first read it. I was after action and
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50 Shades, MoonlightIn FSOG chapter 12, Christian can’t know that Ana welcomes his actions. That’s what makes his actions creepy.
OK, I confess. I was all up for writing a piece about consent and victim blaming and the difference between
Why do people say 50 Shades is (or isn’t) abusive?
I’m getting various search hits with people asking why 50 Shades is abusive, so I thought I would try and summarise the
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50 Shades, MoonlightTo all newbie subs exploring BDSM: beware sub-frenzy (guest post)
When I think of women getting all excited about the idea of finding their personal dominant Christian Grey, I think of
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BDSM, MoonlightIs it intellectual snobbery to say Fifty Shades is badly written?
One of the common complaints about 50 Shades is that it’s badly written. Jamie Dornan was quoted in the Guardian as
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50 Shades, Moonlight
Newbie submissive-types – this is what you REALLY need to know in BDSM (guest post)
This is essential reading for the would-be Ana’s out there who are curious about BDSM (and for anyone looking to be
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BDSM, MoonlightWomen who’ve never had sex or an orgasm need to know that Ana’s first orgasm is utter fiction
This post is about a problem I have in chapter 8 of 50 Shades of Grey, which is that it is
Happy Birthday Website!
A short post on the day the website was created.
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