BDSM

Why do I write about BDSM?


About BDSM (from inside the scene)

A message to S-Types – What you REALLY need to know

Jenny Trout: On defending BDSM with 50 Shades (50 Shades related)

Seven essential facts about consent

A real-life rant about ‘command rape’ in the BDSM scene


Analysis

Telling the difference between kink and abuse

What’s bad about “the worst” six slaps? (50 Shades related)

How 50 Shades reflects real life abuse in the BDSM scene: part 1, part 2 and part 3

YesMeansYes: What coercive people look for in a “No”


Personal stories

In a frenzied search for your Mr Grey? Read this. Now.

I dated Christian Grey… and I don’t care to see him again (Feb 2017) (50 Shades related)

Woman standing arms folded in from of Christian Grey picture from 50 Fifty Shades Darker.