BDSM

Why do I write about BDSM?


About BDSM (from inside the scene)

A message to S-Types – What you REALLY need to know

Jenny Trout: On defending BDSM with 50 Shades (50 Shades related)

Seven essential facts about consent

A real-life rant about ‘command rape’ in the BDSM scene


Analysis

Telling the difference between kink and abuse

Holding someone by the throat: abusive strangulation or consensual play? (May 2018)

What’s bad about “the worst” six slaps? (50 Shades related)

How 50 Shades reflects real life abuse in the BDSM scene: part 1, part 2 and part 3

YesMeansYes: What coercive people look for in a “No”


Personal stories

In a frenzied search for your Mr Grey? Read this. Now.

I dated Christian Grey… and I don’t care to see him again (Feb 2017) (50 Shades related)

Woman standing arms folded in from of Christian Grey picture from 50 Fifty Shades Darker.